Ready to Make a Long-Lasting Impression on Your First Video Date? Follow These Tips!


Making a good initial impression is arguably one of the most important factors that goes into having a successful first video date with that special someone. Unfortunately, this isn’t always as easy as it may seem for many of us, as our nerves can oftentimes get the best of us when we’re getting ready to put ourselves out there with someone we fancy for the first time. 

Between scheduling a date with someone new and exploring territory that’s unfamiliar to you, it can be hard to know what to expect. Nevertheless, no matter how intimidated or nervous you may feel in the days leading up to your romantic experience, there are still some things you can do to make a long-lasting impression with the person of your dreams. Just follow these tips!

Dress the Part

A simple way to ease nerves when preparing for your first video date is to wear clothes that make you feel good and look good. Picking out the perfect attire will allow you to express who you truly are through your clothing, letting your fashion sense do the work when making a great first impression. Plus, when you’re happy with what you’re wearing, you’re way more likely to feel empowered about yourself as you navigate this unfamiliar situation. 

Before you pick out your style for the evening, it’s essential to be mindful of the environment. Where will you be conducting your first video date? Hopefully, not from your car! Be sure your video date is held somewhere that is quiet and has good lighting. The whole point is to actually see them live for the first time so don’t show your date a dark screen. If the background is visible from your screen, ensure everything is nice and neat. You don’t want your first video date to be remembered as that one girl/guy with the mound of dirty clothes, now do you? We didn’t think so.

Whatever the circumstances may be, just be sure to choose an outfit that makes you feel comfortable and confident from the inside-out and is also fitting for the video date. Don’t worry, you got this!

Stay Stress-Free

Believe it or not, stress can wreak havoc on your skin. The last thing you need before your first video date is a horrible breakout. That’s why it’s essential to step up your skin care game prior to your first video date as this will help soothe the nerves and remain stress-free as you prepare for this one-of-a-kind date.

Acne can happen to men and women alike at various stages of life. There are solutions like acne treatment cream or even at home remedies for skin care that could help you bounce back from acne. Confidence doesn’t just come from the clothes you wear; it comes from how comfortable you are with your entire body, skin and all. Don’t let the nervousness from your first video date stress you out!

When in Doubt, Smile it Out

Your pearly whites can have a serious influence on your ability to make a long-lasting impression. In fact, according to a survey conducted by the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, 48% of American adults believe that a person’s smile is their most memorable feature! Needless to say, when in doubt, smile it out on your first video date! Nervous? Smile it out! Anxious? Smile it out! Doubtful? Well, you get the point.

If you’re looking to give your teeth some extra love prior to your first video date, have no fear! There are many things you can do to improve your smile without having to break the bank. Say you’re looking to brighten up your teeth prior to going on your virtual date. Rather than paying for some expensive dentistry treatment, you can easily find an affordable, at-home teeth whitening kit at one of your local drugstores! How’s that for keeping the bank happy and hefty? 

But, remember that some treatments may require a few uses before visible results will start to appear, so depending on how much time you have leading up to your first video date, it may be in your best interest to look for another option. Luckily, the options are endless when it comes to giving your smile a quick pick-me-up, so find a solution that works best for you and your personal timeframe and get ready to prep those pearls!

Keep the Conversation Light

First dates, whether virtual or in-person, aren’t meant to be taken so seriously; they’re meant for you to have fun! This is why it is critical to not overthink what you’re getting yourself into, though this is usually much easier said than done.

Try and do your best to keep the conversation light and focus on enjoying the present moment of the person you’re chatting with. Now is not the time to ask, or talk about past relationships, nor discuss other potentially controversial topics such as politics or religion. While these may be worth exploring with them later on, the first video date is usually not the time to do so. What should you talk about? 

Prepare Topics of Conversation Before Your Video Date

The best way to prepare topics of conversation for your video date is to make sure they can’t be answered with a yes or a no. Those are considered “dead” questions because they don’t allow the other person to expand on the subject. When crafting topics to discuss, think about getting your date to talk a little bit about themselves. And don’t forget: your job after you ask the question is to listen. As a result, you will be able to build upon the conversation and start creating a real bond. Here are a few topics of conversation to get you started:

  1. What is your favorite part about your hometown?
  2. What do you like to do in your spare time?
  3. Have you gotten to travel much in your life?
  4. If this date weren’t virtual, where would you like to go?
  5. Do you have any nicknames from your childhood?

Have faith in yourself that you attract and invite the right type of people into your life, and that your first video date is no exception to this. Although it may be tempting to dig deeper with that person, for now, just have fun! The rest will turn out how it’s meant to. 


Written by Dream Singles