Why Confidence Is Key

With the rise of the digital world and the constant cycle of refreshing your feeds, it’s become easy to compare yourself to others. You might think someone has better clothes, better hair, more money to do more fun things, or whatever it might be. Maybe you find that’s what holds you back from posting or opening yourself up online. In all reality, it’s their confidence that allows themselves to open up to the online world. Confidence is worn across the face and becomes the accessory you’re unable to take off. When posting a photo or logging into that dating site you’ve been eyeing for months, it takes CONFIDENCE. Confidence is key and will help lead you to success in all that you do.


What Is Confidence?

Confidence is the empowerment within yourself. It is knowing your worth and then adding tax. Confidence is not letting anyone tell you who you are because you are SO sure in all that you’ve become and worked towards. When you are feeling high and mighty and KNOW that you are able to get what you’re after, it will make all the difference.

Have you heard of the Law Of Attraction? The Law Of Attraction is when you envision what you’re wanting in life and you manifest it. I mean, we know we can’t just think of something we’d like and immediately receive it (or else I’d be in the Carribean right now). How confidence and the law of attraction work hand in hand are in the way of wanting something and knowing you’re going to get it without letting anything get in the way.

Confidence Is Contagious

Spread the wealth! When you know who you are as a person and what you’re after, nothing will get in your way. Have you ever known someone who is so motivated in all that they do and you can’t help but to look at them and think, “how?” and suddenly you’re feeling fired up from their energy and how driven they are? It’s their contagious confidence that is fueling your burst of motivation. When you surround yourself with those who are sure of themselves, driven and confident, they will only be there to lift you up, fire you up and make you believe in yourself.


How can confidence create success?

Where you are confident, you are knowledgable. For example, in an intellectual debate with another, it’s best to speak on knowledge rather than opinions. When you share what you know and are confident in what you’re saying, this is what is going to be heard. Being aware and sure of what you know, say, do, etc,. will create the success in which you’re seeking. It will also close the wall of being taken advantage of.

With confidence, you’re no longer holding back. You’re believing in yourself and your purpose and rising to that potential. When you believe in yourself, you’re more likely to take action. This will give you the drive, the ability to ask questions, the ability to push limits, to say YES or to say NO, and believe that you are going to ACHIEVE!


Will confidence make me more attractive?

In terms of personality, absolutely. In fact, most women say that confidence is the sexiest thing a man can have. When you’re confident, you’re driven. You’re sure of what you want, including the woman you want. It shows a lady that you’re not afraid to make that leap, to make the first move and ensure you’re doing everything in your power to win her over and continue doing so. More than this, being confident in yourself allows you to be more open and in touch with your feelings. Most women prefer a man who is open to sharing his feelings and emotions because this is not a vulnerability, but instead a strength.

Written by Dream Singles