How to Get the Best Out of Chat

how to get the best out of chat

No matter what online dating service you use, chat is a feature that is common to all. You can learn all about someone from their profile, but chat gives a more intimate setting to get to know each other. On Dream Singles, we encourage you to use chat as a way to get closer to the women you are interested in. So what are the benefits of chat? What are some conversation tips? Don’t worry, Dream Singles has you covered. Here is how to get the best out of chat on Dream Singles. 

When you log onto your profile on Dream Singles, you might notice the many chat requests in your inbox. Unlike most dating sites, women are often the ones to make the first move on Dream Singles. Don’t be weary, the 7 to 1 ratio on the site encourages women to take their shot first. Our female members are eager to connect with other members of the site, so use this to your advantage! 

The Mechanics of Chat

It’s very easy to get to the chat feature in Dream Singles. Simply find any woman you are interested in and on their profile there will be a chat option. You can also find the chat feature from your homepage, in the sidebar, from the online now section, and more! 

Simply click on the Chat Now button, wherever you find it, and a chat window will open. The chat section on the bottom gives you the ability to break the ice however you want. Dream Singles even gives you a list of Ice Breakers that you can use. From the chat window, you can send emojis or Smiles, virtual gifts, photos, and more. 

The Art of Conversation

Dream Singles makes it so easy to get to chat but how do you have worthwhile conversations? Here are some tips on how to have genuine conversations that keep both parties engaged. 

Actively Listen 

Do you think this is common sense? Think again! It’s really easy to start typing away and not actually listen or process what someone else is saying. If you are trying to connect with a love interest, you have to really listen. Don’t just talk about yourself, make her feel special. Instead of just responding with a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’, add emojis or Smiles to your conversation. Make it fun and interesting.  

Ask About Hobbies & Interests

When you’re chatting with someone, make it your goal to find some common interests between you. Asking about hobbies and interests is a good way to find out if you are really interested in this person. You can tell a lot about a person by what they are interested in. When you find something that interests you both, keep this as something to bring up in conversation later! 

Send a Photo

One of the best ways to connect with someone is to send a photo of yourself. When you’re connecting with someone online, it’s easy for a conversation to get less personable. Sending an image helps you become more familiar with who you actually are. For example, send a picture of your dog or cat. This is a great way for someone to get to know who you are and what you care about. 

Written by Dream Singles